O Christmas Tree


My sweet husband brought all the Christmas boxes upstairs for me AND put the tree together before he had to head out on a business trip, so I was able to get the tree decorated and set up the Christmas village, etc.  Now the house is mostly done inside.

Last year we went to Sam’s before Thanksgiving and took a little detour down the Christmas decor aisle…just to see what they had.  I found some LED lights that (wait for it)—change from warm white to multi-colored!!!  Of course we had to snatch some up to put on the tree!

I personally like warm white lights on a tree.  The men who live here all prefer colored lights though, so a few years back we got some colored LEDs.  Because I love my family.  I was never really in love with these lights—anybody else get a weird “Ahhh, my eyes, my eyes, those blue lights!” thing from LEDs?  Maybe it’s just me.  Anyway, finding these lights that SWITCH BACK AND FORTH and also have a twinkle setting for each colorway, and don’t blind me with the blue bulbs…was like. Christmas. in. October.  I can have my simple white lights, they can have the festive colored lights.  Win-Win!

My clever younger son decided on a system of even/odd with white on even days and colors on odd days.  He got up every morning and switched them over.  Not happening this year, he is a real live teenager now that he’s sixteen, and he prefers to sleep in.

Our tree is old.  Many years old.  But it gets the job done and I think when it starts looking super tatty I might try a DIY flocking thing on it to get a few more years out of it.  As I gaze at it from my spot at the dining room table, I notice that it is listing ever so slightly to port.  Let’s assume that makes it more realistic.

I don’t know if these particular lights are available anymore.  I looked at Sam’s Club online and did not find them.  I haven’t been to stores, but with all the places selling Christmas lights, there’s a good chance something similar can be found if you like the option of switching back and forth.

When installing these lights, I go from the bottom up and drape the string in and out on each branch.  More or less.  I try to keep all the little control boxes in a similar general area so they can be found easily for switching back and forth.  There are six strings on the tree, so six little boxes are all in a cluster on the back left side of the tree.  Five are always easy to find, the sixth is a struggle.


The topper is a big paper snowflake that I made because I haven’t found what I really want to top the tree yet.  Last year was a big old shiny gold bow with long streamers, but I just wasn’t feeling it this year.  The search is on for the perfect tree topper.  I might have to make one…


Coming soon, putting up the Christmas village and other Christmas-y things inside and outside…and a tutorial on the little felt snowmen on my tree.

Which lights do you prefer on your tree?


Unique Gift Ideas


Photo courtesy of Gifts.com via Flicker CC BY


Tired of shopping at the standard retail establishments for your Christmas gifts?  Consider supporting small business owners instead!  I will feature some of these entrepreneurs from time to time here at HoI, and my first one is Julie Siess.

Julie is the mother of two adorable girls, married to a wonderful husband, with a very energetic dog named Danny.  She lives in Missouri but can ship to you.

Julie runs two businesses aside from her day job.  The first, Absolutely Brilliant Jewelry, has stunning bracelets, earrings, and necklaces.  Her gallery is on Facebook on the page Absolutely Brilliant Jewelry.  Here’s the link to the page:  https://www.facebook.com/Absolutely-Brilliant-Jewelry-224038260974664/   Right now she has a Christmas special on some of her pieces, silver plated earrings are $5 each or 2 for $10.

Swarovski Woven Bracelet in a teal blue, sized medium, with Tierra Cast toggle clasp $35
Picture Jasper and Swarovski Crystal necklace $60
Swarovski Crystal earrings on sterling silver $20

As you can see, these are intricately crafted and are made of high-quality materials.

Below are a few more examples of her work…my December favorites are the little crystal Christmas trees.


This is just a tiny sample of the things she makes, go take a look at her FB page to see more.

Julie’s other business is Mary Kay.  She is running a personal Christmas special of fuzzy socks (black, gray, hot pink, purple, orange, turquoise and lime green socks available) and Mint Bliss lotion…gift wrapped for $15.  She will ship for an additional $5, but if your purchase is over $100, shipping is free!  Mary Kay orders over $100 will get a 15% discount.

To get these deals you need to phone her at (314) 398-5002 or email Julie.Siess@gmail.com .  It’s not available on her website, which is here, if you need other Mary Kay goodies:  https://www.marykay.com/jsiess/en-us/products/gifts?iad=topnavpws_gifts 

Happy unique shopping!  I have to go light up my tree.

Time to Decorate for Christmas…



Wow y’all.  It’s the Monday after Thanksgiving.  In the past 8 days, I have cooked THREE turkeys for three different Thanksgiving events (one for church, two for family) and so to say I am turkey-ed out would be an understatement.  This year I did finally pop for a shiny red electric roaster and was not disappointed.  It was great, my oven was free, and it cleaned up easily.  I also learned a valuable lesson: do not try to use an oven bag inside an electric roaster.

Today the temperature here is 72 degrees with a 22 mph south wind.  I just stuffed all my fall decorations back in the basement and am trying to work up the energy to shove the Christmas boxes up the stairs.

I have found that no matter how reluctant I am to get the Christmas decor up, I ALWAYS feel much better/relaxed/festive/whathaveyou once they are in place.   Psychoanalysts say people who put up that tree early are happier than those who do not (tap into that inner child!), and there is an actual study in the Journal of Environmental Psychology that shows people who put up outdoor decorations are perceived as more friendly and approachable.

Whatever, I need to get it done!

Last years Village setup



Well, here goes…

Oklahoma State University campus in Stillwater, Oklahoma looking stunning with fall color this year.


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The old barn at my mother-in-law’s farm



Double Knockout rose in November



A glorious Oklahoma sunset